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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been overweight since I've had my son (4 years ago) and haven't been [b]unable to shake the weight off[/b]. I know I'm overweight but have [b]struggled with loosing it[/b]. Just to hear the words from my husbands mouth cut me to the core...Then he gets mad at me for being upset. He says "you call yourself fat how is that different if I say it" But it's not the same. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?[/quote]

You don't shake weight off and yes losing it is a struggle, but it ain't brain surgery.  He's probably more upset with the fact that you have not tried to lose the weight than the weight itself.  Its a bit like a husband who has been unemployed for four years, but won't get off his couch to look for a job.  Its not the immediate unemployment [i]per se[/i] that frustrates the wife, but instead the fact that he is unwilling to do anything about it.

"Gosh, my wife called me lazy last week.  I mean, I've struggled to look for a job ..." blah blah blah.  Sorry to sound mean, but here's an idea.  Get off the computer and go for a power walk.  "But I can't leave junior alone ..."?  Try aerobics at home.  Heck, you should have seen my Mom doing Jack LaLanne in the 70s. 
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