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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, so many responses.  OP here.  Fwiw, his in office  hours are 7am (leaves at 6:40) and leaved office at 6:15- 6:45. It's not permanent and  yes we like the money but it's hard on him aND me. But I do try to  not let on as much that it's hard on me with its already being hard on him!

It means though that when I am working  40-45 hours a week that I'm also.doing most of the stuff at home too since I am home around in those extra hours in am aND pm.

I'm happy we took this into consideration when buying our house and kept our  payments as low as.possible by sinking probably much more into DP than most people think is wise (tying up our money I suppose ) . It at least gives us wiggle room to look for other jobs.  If it gets too hard[/quote]

DH just quit a 210k grinder much like what your DH is experiencing. We vaye life over careers. We had an exit plan for DH. We now only have a 2500/mo mortgage and utilities. I have a nice 40hr a week job.

DH is job searching now and refuses to go more than 7 miles from the house and won't work another grinder. The whole family looooves having him home. Don't let the golden handcuffs rule your life. Minimize,  minimize minimize. Your family will be happier, your marriage will be happiest and your health will be better.

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