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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I like some of the PPs suggestions about just bringing what you want, explaining to MIL beforehand that you'd like to contribute it for emotional reasons, enjoying it, not worrying if nobody else has it, and getting your spouse's support. He or she could back-channel to MIL and point out that it's hard for you to miss your family and your family traditions. Where would you have to travel to be near your family? Your MIL is being shortsighted, because if you don't feel welcome you could decide that you, your spouse, and any kids you might have are going to spend Tday with your family and not with her. [/quote]
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