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[quote=Anonymous]This alpha/beta stuff is pick up artist shorthand. The definitions vary, but I think Athol Kay had some useful thoughts on the subject. 
http://marriedmansexlife.com/take-the-red-pill/alpha-and-beta-male-traits/

"The Alpha Traits are those associated with classic “manly man” strengths. Power, dominance, physical ability, bravery, wealth, cool and confidence. Oh and good genes. These are the things that attract women and turn them on sexually. The Alpha Traits are linked to the dopamine response in women.
. . . 
The Beta Traits are those associated with the strengths of being a nice guy / “family man”. Kindness, being a good listener, the ability to help with the children, dependability, thoughtfulness, compassion and patience. These all create a sense of comfort and safety for the woman, and relax her because she feels that if she became pregnant, the Beta Trait male isn’t going to abandon her and the baby."

His general idea is that a long term relationship needs a good mix of both. The "alpha" traits tend to be the ones that lend themselves to dopamine and sexual excitement. The "beta" traits tend to lend themselves to oxytocin and nonsexual bonding. [/quote]

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