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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Being a good parent is about time, attention, stability, love, availability, etc.  It has nothing to do with who you are putting your penis in.  Your sex life has nothing to do with kids.  So long as the parent is taking finances or attention from the kids, it isn't relevant.

It's like asking whether a woman is a good mom if she isn't having regular sex with her husband.  Men would be tempted to say yes, but the truth is they aren't related [b]unless either the lack of marital sex or the affair rips up the family home.[/b][/quote]

Just stay in that affair bubble and keep lying to yourself.[/quote]

It had everything to do with me the day I walked in on them.  I saw things a 14-year-old should never, ever see.[/quote]

I said that the only way the affair matters is if dad isn't paying attention or if he gets caught.  I am not disagreeing with you, see bold above.  The problem wasn't where his penis was, it was that he was dumb enough to stick his penis somewhere that could be seen by his 14 year old.[/quote]

If you're having an affair with a sentient being, there is no way to ensure the affair happens within a closed system.  My spouse left no clues, but her affair partner's wife guess with very, very scant evidence.  AP cracked and shared all.  My ex was very careful, but now everybody knows.[/quote]

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