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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Being a good parent is about time, attention, stability, love, availability, etc.  It has nothing to do with who you are putting your penis in.  Your sex life has nothing to do with kids.  So long as the parent is taking finances or attention from the kids, it isn't relevant.

It's like asking whether a woman is a good mom if she isn't having regular sex with her husband.  Men would be tempted to say yes, but the truth is they aren't related unless either the lack of marital sex or the affair rips up the family home.[/quote]

It does have to do with the kids.  The cheater is not being a good role model to his/her children.  [b]If the cheater is unhappy in the marriage, then the cheater should get divorced.[/b][/quote]

Children thrive on stability.  On average, a child from a broken home does worse than a child from an intact home (not saying all children from broken homes are bad, or all children from intact homes are great, but the literature on the averages is indisputable).

Therefore, a man who divorces his wife and breaks up his family to get his sexual needs met is a worse father than one who stays in the marriage and cheats.  A cheater may be a worse husband but better father.[/quote]

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