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Reply to "I need help not thinking about divorcing my husband."
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[quote=Anonymous]I'm not advocating for divorce but something needs to change because the resentment will kill you. DH lost his job twice and we had little kids or one kid and another in the way. He was filled with shame anger and depression, but he networked like crazy, applied for jobs and ended up with a much better job. He did not automatically pick up slack at home but I made lists of chores and asked him which ones he was going to accomplish and more importantly when, while acknowledging that job search can be draining. It was a rough time but it was imperative that I did not make him feel worse by nagging, at same time I did not let him off hook. Made it business like. I also prefaced it as "when yo get a new job you will have to put 110% in st the start and I will pick up the slack for you. In the meantime I appreciate you taking on xyz chores so I can focus more on work during this period."[/quote]
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