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Reply to "I need help not thinking about divorcing my husband."
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[quote=Anonymous]I actually agree that there is truth to men being defined by and valued by their job and that it's psychologically damaging to suddenly have your defining thing taken away. But it's not enough to say, "Oh poor guy, he's judged negatively by society. Just grit your feet while he contributes absolutely nothing to the family because he'll be grateful later." You can sympathize with his loss of identity and feel of not being socially valuable while still holding him accountable for basic adult partner stuff like keeping up the house and caring for his children. If this was a woman who wasn't trying that hard to get a job, wasn't taking care of the house, and wasn't looking after the kids, people would be all over that. [/quote]
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