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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know kids shouldn't win at everything and that winning isn't even the point, but damn I just wish that one time my 11 year old DS would have the feeling of success that comes with making a sports team, school leadership position, etc.  He's not athletic, but is a decent student who enjoys playing instruments, competing in lego competitions.  He desperately wants to find his place and in 11 years has never ended up on top.  He keeps putting himself out there (and we make sure that his goals aren't unrealistic) and comes up empty, then feels worse about himself and inevitably behaves terribly for a bit because he doesn't know how to express his emotions.  DW and I always tell him how proud we are that he tries, but just once I wish it would pay off for him.  Not really seeking any advice, but just crossing my fingers that at some point he will see the fruits of his labor.[/quote]

Dude, he is 11.  Sounds like you are trying way too hard which in turn is stressing him out and making him feel like a failure.  Why must he be in anything competitive right now?  Strange[/quote]

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