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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This has happened to me multiple times.

What I do, is the next time I see the wife (and sometime in front of the husband) I say.

"Oh, I saw George at Hunan Palace in Fairfax, I love that place do you guys go there often?"

Then I let them deal with it.

Twice it was an affair. One divorced the other didn't.

If I hear about an affair I don't say anything, If you are stupid enough for me to see it... I say something.[/quote]

Nice shit stirring. [/quote]

If you don't want your shit stirred... don't shit in my presence.

Also... stop passing STDs to everybody. [/quote]

Um, first of all, you're crazy. 
Second of all, you don't own the metro DC area, so what someone does in a public restaurant on their own time is seriously none of your business. If you came up to me and told me you'd seen my husband at Szechuan Palace as if you were divulging some very catastrophic information, I would say "Yes, he took a colleague who was in town for work and staying out that way there for dinner" and then stare your nosy ass down daring you to say more. [/quote]

Really... I say to friends all the time... hey I saw Joe and the boys at the Nats game, what a beautiful night (and now you are staring me down wondering why I stalk your family... you are psycho!)... why is it weird for me to say... I saw Joe at Szechuan Palace, love that place... that is nosy? No its just a statement of fact.

Do you have friends? You never say... hey saw you at Wolf Trap, did you have fun... we were in a hurry and could not stop to chat.

You are crazy if you don't have these normal conversations with your friends. I am not outing anybody I am just making conversation.

If you are guilty of something own it ... stop blaming others.

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You are 100% backtracking and you know it. Your original comment was "If I see George out with someone, I later tell George's wife in front of George and let them deal with it." You are not idly chatting with someone about how they enjoyed the show at Wolf Trap. Talk about owning it... I don't have anything to hide, from my husband or anyone. YOU need to own the fact you admitted you enjoy delivering potentially upsetting information to women, in front of their spouse, so you can have the pleasure of being Hall Monitor for other people's behavior and marriages. [/quote]

No, no backtracking. I said and I quote from my original post Oh, I saw George at Hunan Palace in Fairfax, I love that place do you guys go there often?[i]

BFD... I say that all the time... to friends, he saw you at Nats game, saw you at Wolf Trap, saw your son at the 1/2 time of the Caps game.

I don't seek them out, but when I see them, I will say something. I would NEVER assume if I saw somebody somewhere they were cheating... don't you people have friend/colleagues of the opposite sex.

People with nothing to hide don't care what you say in public. It's more weird to assume you friends is cheating and hide it.. that is bizarre. [/quote]

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