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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I used to be very low libido.  Very.  Something has changed in me in the past year and now I am in the mood several times a week and we are having sex around 4 times a week.  The difference for me is a desire to connect with my spouse that was lacking before because we were not connecting.  Oddly, I previously never thought about sex or masturbated, I just had no drive.  Unfortunately, my husband and I are going through a very rough time right now for a whole host of reasons, which makes me sad, but the sex is still there kind of as a way to connect.

One thing that I found out after I got my drive back is that there are actually seminars for women with low drives.  Had I known that, I might have investigated it because I did not like that I had no drive.  I don't really know how to gently suggest such a thing to her, unfortunately, but here's an example:  http://gpatherapy.com/clients.php#sextherapy (disclaimer - I have not done this one and have no clue if it is good, but it seems like a good idea).  Maybe others in this thread have thoughts on whether such a seminar is a good idea and how to bring it up without crushing your wife.[/quote]

I'm one of the LL women from this thread and I'm curious, how old were you when the switch flipped?  I keep hoping that some sort of hormonal change will wash over me as I move through my 40s and I'll become one of those women who never knew how great sex could be.  [/quote]

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