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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]16:14, do you really, in all honesty, think that the way posters are discussing their needs not being met in their sexless marriages on an anonymous message board is the same way they discuss it with their spouses?

I'm not in a sexless marriage. However, in the last 2 years, we've gone from 3-4 times a week to maybe 1 time every 1-2 weeks. You think I haven't talked to DH about it? You think I meet him at the door when he gets home from work demanding to know why my sexual needs aren't met? I make his favorite meals, I dress nicely, I make sure the kids aren't over the top... I try to make his coming home as peaceful and relaxing as possible. When I try to discuss this topic with him I do the same. I talk about spending more time together, being more connected and intimate, don't accuse...

When I come here to vent, I'm just venting. I'm tired of being rejected. I'm tired of putting forth so much effort at home and getting nothing for it. So when I come here to complain about how he didnt even want sex the last two days before he left for a 2 week business trip, I'm not interested in sugar coating it to protect his precious feelings. Not that he'd even read a sex/relationship board anyway.

And his answer is always that he's stressed at work, tired, or has a headache, for the record. It's never me. It's always him. How do I fix that? How do I work to improve that? [/quote]

I have a feeling he won't be alone on that trip...that's not natural male behavior unless there is interest somewhere else...[/quote]

I'm not even going to get into the whole is he cheating debate. He's only gone some of the time. I can't imagine if he's getting any on the side while traveling that it would be enough to satisfy him when he's home. I know he's not cheating when he's home. Wouldn't he still need sex between trips? He always comes home wanting me the first day or two, then nothing for a week or more. I'm leaning toward libido issues. Maybe low t. He won't get it checked though. [/quote]

Idk...I've been the mistress before that traveled with him and also they tend to be "faithful" to their AP....they just enough to keep things as status quo as possible to not tip the wife off....either way for men it's not *typically* low libido...it's something else...no attraction, resentment, AP....something....[/quote]

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