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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Without the descriptions of the other incidents, it's kind of hard to judge here. Maybe he's just embarrassed about his [b]road rage incident[/b]? Have you actually talked to him about it?

This board is always so rah rah pro divorce. Meh. [/quote]

Road rage is a reaction to the road, to traffic.

OP's DH's rage was directed at OP's comment about the DH's driving.  This is not road rage.  Combined with the dangerous driving, it is a much larger problem than road rage.[/quote]

Jump to conclusions. If DH was mad about traffic, then DW needled him about how he was driving, then he started driving more aggressively, it could absolutely be road rage. [/quote]

Exactly. I'm the first quoted PP. I just don't think there's enough detail to jump to the "YES GET OUT!!" conclusion. I mean, what was he screaming? Was it mean spirited stuff, or was it along the lines of "ENOUGH STOP IT" - very different.[/quote]

Bottom line is she doesn't feel safe with him.  Why do people have such a hard time trusting women to make their own decisions? My DH has driven aggressively before but I never felt that it was his attempt to scare me or my kids.  OP knows what she saw and felt.  No one is saying he should go to jail, but why should she stay with her husband if she doesn't feel safe with him?  A lot has to happen to feel unsafe.  She wants help dealing with a situation where she fears for the safety of her and her child, not to be told that her fears are unfounded because "omg road rage happens to everyone". [/quote]

Yes, she wants help dealing with the situation. Divorce is only one of the options. The question above was if she had *gasp* actually talked to him about it. Does he know that aggressive driving scares her? [b]What is it with DCUM and secretly squirreling away money to divorce as a first option?[/b] [/quote]

Just read the 150+ pages of the Kane thread on the Entertainment boards, you will find your answer there.

Seriously, you have to think ahead when a relationship is in trouble.  You have to protect yourself.  [/quote]

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