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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - 20:12 is not me. But she asks a valid question and I can only imagine she is going through something similar and needs your advice too. I work, but I am freelance these last few months and my checks come in the mail. DH is "helpfully" doing the quarterly estimated tax payments for me, so demands I fork over most of each check because "the government takes half" and he also needs me to pay something toward the house on top of that. Yeah. I have my own bank account that he can't access, but there's only a few hundred dollars in it.

Thank you for all the help. I know this is serious. He is trying to act like nothing happened, and it sickens me to say this, but I am acting the same way to provide cover so I can talk to an attorney. On that note, your recommendations for a divorce attorney practicing in montgomery who can navigate abuse situations is welcome.
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OP I am concerned about you and many have offered some sound advice and support. I do have to ask however about your husband...has he ever sought treatment? Also, aside from this anger issue, which I know is a big obstacle, how is he as a husband and father.

One thing further...control issues...regardless of gender...often has it's roots in the feeling of not being in control of self.[/quote]

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