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Reply to "Husband keeps mentioning one particular lady at work..?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As someone who has had an emotional affair… this is bad, I’m sorry. I talked about my EA guy to my husband all the time. It’s a way to make it seem like it’s just an innocent friendship when he knows he’s got feelings for her. [/quote] [b]This. When you talk about the person to your spouse it normalizes the relationship.[/b] Once married, friends of the opposite sex should be present but distant. A kind of take em' or leave em' approach.[/quote] Dunk her. If she floats, she's a witch. Same logic. If the friender doesn't talk about the friendee and Jealous Spouse learns they talk to each other a lot at work, that's KEEPING SECRETS, which is evidence of an affair. If the friender does talk about the friendee to Jealous Spouse, that's TALKING ABOUT ANOTHER MEMBER OF SPOUSE'S GENDER, and that's evidence of an affair. Taken together, that's DCUM.[/quote]
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