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[quote=Anonymous]OP I am so sorry that you are feeling like this. It sounds to me as if you have made every effort to save your union and keep your family in tact, yet your husband is not as committed as you are and if both sides are not willing to put in 120%, then failure will result. No exceptions.

You have truly sacrificed so much for your marriage, you aren't a quitter by any means. Since your husband doesn't seem as committed as you are, you have no other option but to leave him.

Think about it, life is not very long. And to live out the rest of your good years in misery is not a life at all. It would be simple existence for the sake of existence.

I say file for divorce, the sooner the better.

Sure, you may not live in as nice a house or be able to afford many financial things you can now, but isn't happiness and contentment with life worth the trade-off?? I think so.

Also, staying with this man as unhappy as your posting illustrates will be setting a horrible example for your two kids. Children learn from their parent's behaviors and for them to see their mother miserable yet complacent in an unhappy marriage would be setting the worst precedent ever.

Many women have left unhappy marriages due to no fault of their own. And in the end, they have never regretted it.

More regret lingers in the homes of women who choose to stay hitched to someone who makes them feel dead and invisible.[/quote]

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