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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Personally, I would never forgive DH if he cheated.  I wouldn't dump him, however, because we have a small child and I am not struggling by myself as a single mother.  I would keep him right here as our son's hands-on, live-in father until my son was in his teens.[b]  I would be cheating too though.[/b] [/quote]

Okay, you're really immature. Either work through it with your spouse (assuming he wants to) or leave. Don't make a mockery of your marriage for years on end. Your kid deserves better. [/quote]

I am quite sure that my child would not care a bit about infidelity he is not aware of going on while he is being raised in a calm, two-parent home.  On the other hand, he would care very much about being shuttled back and forth between acrimoniously divorced parents. Make your moral judgments without hiding behind a boy you don't even know.  [/quote]

+1. I'm a single mother myself, but I can totally see the logic in going this route instead. Treat others how you would expect to be treated is pretty universal. If the priority is about keeping an intact family, it makes sense.[/quote]

I don't know, maybe you're right. I just wonder if someone who's capable of living like this is really all that different from the person who cheated in the first place. Seems like it might be two people who both have pretty dark places inside. [/quote]

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