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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel bad even typing the subject bc I love my little baby to bits. But I hate being married. I like my DH ok- he's a fun person but if I had a do over I wouldn't marry him. We are so incompatible.  I hate all the trade offs and compromises I have to make in marriage.  I love my little baby so much and have a hard time with motherhood. I miss sleeping in and keeping whatever schedule I want. People say live authentically - I don't know what my authentic self even looks like...is the authentic me a person who abandons her husband and child just so she can sleep in on the weekends and plan month-long yoga retreats?  The irony is that before I was married, I would pray to meet someone and get married.  Now I realize how dumb it was to want that so bad. I miss living in the city, keeping all my money, having my time to myself.  Now I'm a SAHM living so far from my authentic self, and I don't know how to find my way back.  Single gals, embrace it! I miss it. [/quote]

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I totally agree with you. I am stopping at one child and if I ever get divorced, I will not remarry.  If you are an attractive, financially independent woman, there is literally no reason to invite drama into your life by giving a man a legal hold on you.  Penis is free.  Also, I love my baby, but if I could redo motherhood, I would not.  Childbearing takes a far greater toll on women.  There are a lot of wives/mothers who feel the way we do.  I wish someone had been honest with me before I got married and had a child.[/quote]

Fake it for 18 years. You can do it PP. Trust me, you'll still have plenty of youth to live once you send your kid on his way. Suck it up and pretend to be the mother your kid deserves. [/quote]

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