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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you always so judgmental? You sound obsessed or compulsive about her. Your wishes for their marriage have no basis. You need some sort of therapy to move beyond thinking that your expectations have any place on others. You say you didn't need her to change but your parents did then it should be their hang up, not yours. You say you approve of the change yet her texting makes you anxious? How is this reasonable unless she is a criminal? If she is a normal human being then you are not responding appropriately towards her. Why are you fixated on her? Why can't you just let her be who she is? Why is your brother's choice for a wife any of your business? You get to decide whether you vacation with them or not but that's about all.[/quote]

I never said I didn't want her to change. I said that I thought it was wrong for my brother to ask he to change. He knew who she was when he married her. Once brother heard from my parents about it then he addressed it with his wife. I am happy she's changed but I still don't care for her and it upsets me. I've known her to be one way for many years. I'm trying. [/quote]

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