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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not a troll, still here. I don't think you rude posters get it. Mil has gone through so much I in a short time and we are her stability. We are leaving for 2 weeks and I guess she is just scared to be alone. [/quote] Then maybe she needs you to go alone as much as you do? My mom avoided mourning by traveling incessantly to visit everyone she knew and never spending time alone. It just delayed the inevitable, but eventually her frequent flyer miles ran out. She had a rough month in the house they shared for 50 years, but was much better after allowing herself to mourn. You only get one honeymoon, and her joining you won't make her mourning any easier. But if worrying about her will ruin your honeymoon anyway, maybe there is a relative or an old friend who could visit her while you are gone? Ultimately, only you and your DF can decide which difficult choice will be better for you.[/quote]
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