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Reply to "I had an emotional affair but now I'm ready to divorce my wife because she can't get over it"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think it would be productive in therapy to talk about how you communicate as a couple about this issue. I don't think that it's appropriate to send a text like "I don't think you're trying hard enough" to someone while they're on their way to work. That strikes me as kind of manipulative. If she felt that way and really needed to talk about it in the moment, why not mention it before you leave the house? Why not say that she wants to talk about what she needs from you, rather than just saying "You're not trying hard enough" and not providing any avenue to do better. I think that the OP needs to give it more time, but I think it's also important to remember that people are not mind readers. It's not fair to require certain responses from your partner, not communicate those requirements and then punish them for failing to read your mind. [/quote]
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