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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's my read:  your post is all about you.  How you can't stand being the same room, how you don't want to hear about it anymore blah blah blah.

I don't think you're showing very much concern for your wife's pain, which is probably why this isn't closed for her.

Unless she feels really really heard and understood and feels you're remorseful, she will not have peace - therefore you will not have peace.

I can't get over your whole post is about how you think the fallout of your bad decisions is lasting too long for your comfort.  That's one of the most self centered,  un-empathetic, non-compassionate things I've heard in a long time.  you're a loser. [/quote]

But based on what was written, do you feel like his wife is working towards relational repair, or just using this as justification to remain angry and isolated? None of us can say what either of them are like IRL, but from the one-sided perspective he gave, she's not helping. Yes, it's sucks that she's the aggrieved party and still has to do work to fix things, but that's life and love. Time frame aside, it does sound like she's actively trying to punish him, which won't help. Pl[/quote]

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