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Reply to "I had an emotional affair but now I'm ready to divorce my wife because she can't get over it"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am a woman and I hear you. I stopped speaking to my best friend of 15 years over a refusal to actually forgive. Mind you, this was for something less serious than an EA, which made it even worse. But regardless, I think it is a huge failure of character to SAY that you will work to forgive someone and then refuse to actually do it. It's passive aggressive, it's childish, and it's small IMO. If you didn't have sex with someone, then to e this is something you could fix. Marriage is hard, and it's work. If she's no longer willing to do the work then she should just be honest and say so. If the tables were turned, and I were in your shoes, I would be making myself VERY clear - if you don't feel like you can ever forgive me and MOVE ON, them say so now, and I will move in by initiating divorce proceedings. It always takes two and it sounds like she is refusing to see her role in the continued deterioration if your relationship. GL.[/quote]
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