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[quote=Anonymous]So you did in fact agree to this arrangement. The contract with the builder then must have your, your husband's, your FIL, and MIL's signatures? If not did you have a separate contract with IL's? Most likely some money will be lost if the contract with the builder is cancelled. I've been in a similar spot... My IL's wanted us to live large and up to their standards so they bought a 5,000 sq ft house as a surprise then asked us to purchase it from them.  We were thrilled and agreed. It took longer to sell our house for the down payment and there was the tiny problem that my mother and I co owned and shared that house.  When my IL's found out my mother would be on the deed to the new house they refused to sell to us but said she could still live there. Needless to say the deal was off.  My husband and I took the high road and continued to treat them well but nonetheless other opposing views popped up years later and we are now free of their expectations.  Regardless you can mend the relationship if you try but it might just be a symptom of a larger problem.  Good luck. Do what is right for your family and you will be able to live with yourself.[/quote]

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