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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's been brought up before, but what's the difference here between women wanting a man who has resources compared to men wanting a woman they find attractive?  The stigma is not the same......the basic criteria is.  I don't see men lining up for the great personality older woman because they don't want to be "shallow...."  Also, as an aside, anyone can cheat.[/quote]

I think it's because we have a lot of other, nonromantic, relationships where there are pretty clear rules about when and why you get to use someone else's stuff. If I declined to become someone's friend because he didn't have enough stuff for me to use, that would make me a pretty shitty person. Or if I became someone's friend just to use their stuff, that would make me a shitty person - if not a criminal.

There just isn't much of a nonromantic analog when it comes to relating to people based on their looks. And, after all, if I use someone for their stuff, they have less stuff when I'm finished using them. If I use someone for their looks, they will keep or lose their looks at the same rate as if I wasn't involved. [/quote]

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