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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our 15 yr DD recently came out as gay. We fully support her in whoever she is and chooses, however, [b]I'm not sure if it's "real" [/b]or just a byproduct of going to a small, liberal, arts school where everyone seems to be bi, gay, transgender, pan, a, etc. We are very close, and I just never had the impression she was gay. However, with my sister for example, I suspected from a young age that she was. Curious if anyone has been through this and their child ended up hetero afterall?[/quote] It's real for now, that's what matters, not a hypothetical future. I wouldn't worry about it, just deal with new facts if they emerge.[/quote] Sorry, but you can't have it both ways. [b]Whatever happened to, "they were born this way," "who would choose to be gay," "they can't choose being gay any more than you can choose being straight," blah blah blah.[/b] OP, sounds like your DD needs some real parental guidance. There is no way I'd let my 15 year old get mixed up with this.[/quote] They are born this way. For some people, that means born liking both men and women. For others, it means only liking one gender. For others, it means doing whatever they want to at the moment because it feels goods and/or they enjoy rubbing bits with randoms. [/quote]
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