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[quote=Anonymous]You are not the boss of them and you do not get to choose their friends. It is not disloyal to have more than one friend. The only part of this that is a valid complaint is that neither of them mentioned this growing friendship, but given that you are clingy (my friends are my family), possessive (they need my permission to be friends), competitive (she was giving off a vibe like she belonged there more than me) and irrational (I am sensitive, therefore everyone needs to be worried about my emotions at all times, even at a funeral), my guess is that they didn't mention it because they knew you would not respond like a healthy, rational friend and say "lovely! So glad you two are connecting! We should hang out some time!" But knew that instead you would do all you can to make their friendship about you and be a roadblock to them building an independent relationship.[/quote]
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