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[quote=Anonymous]We're I in your shoes I would propose the following: You keep your house. You move in his, but agree that if something happens to him and the kids are over 21, then you will move out to wherever you want at that point, but you leave his house. He puts "$x" per month aside for you, or an insurance policy where you are the beneficiary. You are going to be negatively impacted by his tax rates, for example. Your combined taxes will mean where you used to get a refund, now you personally might not. Things like this matter. Everything earned going forward are joint...but you both need attys and an account to work out "fair" ahead of time. You could end up married to him longer than his first wife. [/quote]
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