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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't see why you have to blend the finances at this stage of your life.  He is paying for his house, right? Let him continue doing so, and let him retain the 100% ownership.  You do the same with yours.  You figure out a split for your daily incidentals like food and clothing. Done. [/quote]

+1 you keep your house, but rent it. He retains complete ownership of his home, and you split the other stuff. [/quote]

Sounds like roommates-not man and WIFE.

And that's a cute plan-as long as everyone lives forever.[/quote]
Retaining complete ownership of your own assets supersedes death. So the OP's fiance can leave his house to whoever he wishes, and she's free to dispose of her property similarly. It's not joint accounts that transform you into man and wife (why the caps?)[/quote]

Your post makes no sense. And I say this with kindness.

It is becoming man and WIFE that transforms assets into joint accounts and a house into a marital home.[/quote]
There are many ways of being married, and your preferred one doesn't have to be the best for everyone. Every married couple writes its own marital story. It doesn't have to fit your mold. It doesn't actually have to make sense to you.  Who died and appointed you the arbiter of marriedness?[/quote]

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