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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. How old were you when you married?[/quote]
DH and I, both were 25.  Dated for 6 years, college sweethearts but waited for marriage.

[quote=Anonymous]2. Are you still married to the spouse you lost your virginity to?[/quote]
Yes. 20+ years now

[quote=Anonymous]2. Did you grow up religious?[/quote]
Not really.  Not having sex was nothing to do with religion and more to do with social norms of the conservative country I was raised in.

[quote=Anonymous]3. Did you or do you have any sexual hangups?[/quote]
I did not know enough about sex to have hangups. This was pre-internet days. I had not even seen porn or nude pictures.

[quote=Anonymous]4. Was your spouse also a virgin?[/quote]
Yes, he was.

[quote=Anonymous]5. If your spouse was more experienced  was that an issue for you?[/quote]
He was not more experienced, but he was the one who took the lead in the bedroom.

[quote=Anonymous]6. How do you or will you instruct your children regarding sex and sexuality?[/quote]
I want my kids to have sex only in respectful relationships and when they are adults and can make mature decisions.  I want them to be safe and feel loved in the relationship.  I am very open with my kids (I think shockingly so!), but I do not worry about the physical aspect of sex for them, rather than the emotional aspect.

[quote=Anonymous]7. Do you regret your decision to wait? Was it worth it?[/quote]
No.  I was not a virgin because I prized my virginity. I was a virgin because I wanted to be very sure of the relationship.  It was protecting my mind and heart rather than my hymen.  I think it was worth it.

[quote=Anonymous]8. Do you and your spouse have an active sex life?[/quote]
Very active. Very imaginative and adventurous.  We are blessed to have a similarly high libido relationship.  I think we can be absolutely open and relaxed with each other, because we never had anyone else to compare with.

[quote=Anonymous]9. Are you male or female?[/quote]
Female.

[quote=Anonymous]10. When you were single were you open with others about your choice to wait?[/quote]
Never explicitly talked about it with anyone. My first BF was my DH.[/quote]

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