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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm with you, OP.  I've posted here for years about my husband not being into touch generally and having a fairly low sex drive.  I was faithful all through our dating years, engagement and the first seven or so years of marriage. Then I met a guy who just swept me off my feet. I couldn't have stayed married without the OM, and it's definitely been best for my kids that their family is intact.

I would feel guilty if my affair prevented me from giving the time and attention to my husband and kids that they need and want, but since it didn't, it's a win win.[/quote]

OP here. You're actually talking about a different scenario than I am.  I am not talking about maintaining a mistress/mister on the side because that speaks to longterm duplicity and a host of other issues.  I can definitely see how being an unwitting co-wife/co-husband would piss a person off.

I am talking about a simple oil change.  A one-time cleaning of the pipes, so to speak.  I don't see why one-offs without feelings, money, or time exchanged fill people with such guilt/anger.[/quote]

In your first post, based on how your worded it, you are a man. Yet, your references makes it appear you are a woman. Now on this response to the woman poster you again use very male terms.[/quote]

My insights exactly.  The wording, lingo, syntax, all point to a very male pattern of speech.  This is kind of a troll post or an intentionally misleading one.  I get why, it is in the OPs interest to garner support for a type of behavior, and it is best to make it sound as if you are woman since most readers are in fact women, and they have been shown again and again to disproportionately support women over men.  Still, this is a crappy way to post your opinions. [/quote]

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