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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm with the OP and I'm also a woman. I actually have never cheated on anyone, but wouldn't rule it out in the future and wouldn't really care if my husband did if I never found out and he was careful. (How could I care about something I don't even know about any way?) I also think people get so worked up over cheating when to me there are so many other things that people do in marriages that are so much more soul-sucking -- cruelty, mistreatment, loss of affection, constant nagging, etc. [/quote]

So if your husband told this theoretical other woman that he loved her and wanted to take care of her, shared details about his life and was emotionally close to her, would that bother you?[/quote]

That is not the situation posed by the OP. Go back and read her first post.[/quote]

(OP) Thank you for correcting this person.  I am not sure why people aren't getting that I don't mean a mistress or longterm cheating.[/quote]

Quoted pp here.  I don't need to be corrected, I hadn't gotten to my point yet.  As a woman, you are less troubled by your male partner having a "clean the pipes" session with a stranger than you would be an on-going emotional relationship.  Men are different - a man is more likely to be troubled by sexual infidelity than he would be by an emotional relationship.   Again, it's that empathy thing.  Your one-off sexual experience would be as soul-crushing to your husband as his emotionally supporting a mistress would be to you.

Have you ever been cheated on, op?

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