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I think you and many other women who post on these type of threads often fail to realize that they too might actually be or had been overly sensitive and how incredibly emotionally draining it can be to deal with as a mother over the course of a childhood to young adulthood.  This is not something I would have understood myself until now that I am in the thick of it.
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PP, when I was a child, my mother would not have described me as sensitive.  I did everything I could avoid letting her see how much she hurt me.  She would have described me as fat, lazy, obstinate, willful, loud, inappropriate, ugly, unbecoming, unladylike, poor decision maker, poor chooser of friends, etc.  She saw me as the one and only thing that was wrong with her otherwise picture perfect life.  She never had an ounce of empathy for me because I didn't deserve it.

My child is somewhat sensitive.  He will always have my unconditional love, support and empathy.  Regarding the shoes, I would have said something along the lines of, "Oh, honey, I know you love those shoes, but the backyard is muddy and mud is not good for shoes." [/quote]

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