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[quote=Anonymous]16:10 here again. OP, you need to find you. Find yourself, and your baby will benefit. Find something that is just for you. It does not have to be much, but you need to do something for yourself. When I was in the pit, it was actually losing weight. I went on weight watchers online and counted points. It seems trivial, but it was something I could do for myself that I could defend to everyone around me. It made me feel like I had power in something and was not terrible at everything (job and home). I am not saying this is for you, but maybe a 30 minute exercise video or knitting, or reading or something for just a short time that is just for you. You need to find your own value in yourself. Others have no right to judge you. You decide what is a good parent and focus on those standards, which should be achievable and lower than what this Martha Stewart worlds tells us it should be. This is the key to seeing the rest of your existence (and the need to stay or go in your marriage) through the proper lens.[/quote]
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