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[quote=Anonymous]Two points: 1) Offer points, or not at all. Unless they are poor, you shouldn't be covering their travel. Have you paid before? 2) *You and DH* get to decide how to celebrate your child's baptism. Make that ultra clear to him--that these kinds of decisions don't get made by the grandparents, and that he needs to learn fast that it's more important to make his wife happy than his parents. If he wants a party that's one thing, but if he only wants to do it for his parents, no dice. I would definitely die on these hills and get to counseling if he can't see past his parents' crazy wishes on this. It's not a good place to start new parenthood catering to the ILs, and if you haven't established yourselves as an independent household separate from them, well, now's the time![/quote]
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