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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. How old were you when you married?[/quote]

I was 25, he was 28

[quote]2. Are you still married to the spouse you lost your virginity to?[/quote]

Yes

[quote]2. Did you grow up religious?[/quote]

Yes, though it was not the kind of rigid, unemotional, unloving religious household that is stereotyped in pop culture. I was raised in a loving Hindu family, showered with affection and always told that my worth was beyond measure. That I should wait for a man who loves me as much as God loves me.

[quote]3. Did you or do you have any sexual hangups?[/quote]

Lol, no. I was very sexually curious as a virgin, but my experimentations consisted of porn and learning how to orgasm via masturbation. No guilt, no hangups.

[quote]4. Was your spouse also a virgin?[/quote]

No, but he wasn't very experienced either as he'd been raised in a traditional Indian-American family. I was his number 2  :)

[quote]5. If your spouse was more experienced  was that an issue for you?[/quote]

No. I'd have taken him virgin or non-virgin as long as he didn't violate my code of sexual ethics prior to meeting me (indiscriminate casual hook-ups, cheating or helping someone cheat, non-consent, etc)

[quote]6. How do you or will you instruct your children regarding sex and sexuality?[/quote]

While we hold the same ideals for our children as we did for ourselves, we are also realistic. We can't control them unless we're slipping spyware into their laptops, phones and cars, and we don't want to be those kinds of parents anyway. We are raising children with high self-esteem and a love and awareness of God, and we hope that they are not casual, callous and indiscriminate with their bodies. We hope they wait for monogamy and love.

[quote]7. Do you regret your decision to wait? Was it worth it?[/quote]

I have zero regrets. I would never want to be touched by a man who doesn't adore me, so casual sex or multiple relationships never held any appeal for me. My DH is the only man I want.

[quote]8. Do you and your spouse have an active sex life?[/quote]

Yep, 4-5 times a week, sometimes more, and there's always a lot of variety and experimentation.

[quote]9. Are you male or female?[/quote]

Female

[quote]10. When you were single were you open with others about your choice to wait?[/quote]

I never dated before the DH![/quote]

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