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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Up until this weekend I didn't know much about his sexual past and I didn't think it was my business to know. So long as he didn't had an STD.

He was and is a great guy. This sexual part is the only issue. I love rough sex and bdsm type stuff. That's not the issue. The issue is seeking out married women. He does have a fetish. He has also told me he did couples, threesomes, and ran a train on a woman. He has been single 4 years before I met him. [/quote]

I'm the pp who recommended that you look at this as a kink and you've confirmed this. What you need to know is how he feels about this looking forward. So he wants to get serious with you and is coming clean. OK, now what? Is this how you're going to play together in the future? Would he give it up?  If you don't know that, you can't decide whether or not to work to accept that this is his past. I know what I'm talking about--my DH was a monger.

Keep the lines of communication open, or end the relationship. [/quote]

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