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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yet another thread demonstrating why monogamous marriage is a horrible idea[/quote]

An open marriage or swinging is one solution, but it seems that most of the time it winds up being a disaster.  So what is the solution?  For my marriage, it is all about surprise.  Married 15 years and my wife and I try to keep the newness in the relationship by trying new things when least expected.  For example, on a Friday I expected to come home and have the kids there.  Instead, she sent them to the grandparents for the weekend and was naked in bed waiting for me.  Another time, we started with some rope in the house and did things I didn't know where in either one of us.

You gotta the groove by trying....[/quote]
open marriage can help because it reignites the biology. You have to simply be willing to channel the benefits generally. When I have a new partner, I find that my desire overall increases. I am hot for my new partner but I also have renewed desire for my older partners. In fact, I find that I can't wait to get home and have my wife again every time I sleep with someone new. I don't stop loving my wife, I just forget to have my party clothes on like I when we first got together. I don't want want to end my marriage I just need occasional reminders to appreciate what is right in front of me. That's why I favor extra marital sex with my wife involved, I need to remember what a sexy woman she is and how lucky I am. Sometimes it take someone else pointing it out to get my attention.[/quote]

Totally agree with you.  Recently discovered this after taking a hot women to bed we know through work.  (We don't work for each other or in the same function).  She's married, I'm married, sex was off the charts.  Sex life at home seems to be picking back up.  Not looking for this to be a regular occurrence.  Would be happy doing her again once or twice this year.  Open marriage and swinging seems to be a bit taboo for us, meaning me and my wife but I know that she likes women anyway so I would have no problem allowing her a friend on the side or to join us.  I wonder if her southern upbringing kept her from being full on lez but sex with us is hot and overall our marriage is strong.

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