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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have 2 young children and the preschooler's "dream" is to visit Legoland. I think he is at a prime age to go and would like to take him this year. I take care of my MIL who moved in with us after a few years in a nursing home, because my husband (only child) was not happy about the quality of care, was feeling guilty. I was not happy but I supported him because I would want to do the same for my mother in the same situation (already dead).

Anyway, I can't go by myself with preschooler because I would also have to bring the baby and I can't imagine how I would go on the rides with my older one. Husband doesn't want to put his mother in a nursing home for respite care because he feels she got in a nice schedule now and is doing really well - he doesn't want to mess it up. So he suggested he take our preschooler by himself and I stay home with his mother and our infant.

In one hand, I think this time could be great for father/son bonding, and a great memory. Besides, I have traveled with him (child) MANY times by myself and husband was always supportive. On the other hand, I can't help but feel resentful, if nothing else,  because I am worried how this situation will play in the future. Are we never to take family vacations anymore while his mother is alive? I don't know what he is thinking because he says he needs time to consider the options.

Anyway, I am feeling very resentful right now.[/quote]

My kids enjoyed Legoland the most in the elementary years.  A preschooler will not remember very long.  Wait until your MIL is better situated and your baby can enjoy it too.  Consider having someone come and stay with her in your home if you are unwilling to wait. [/quote]

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