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Reply to "I told my husband I want to start seeing other people."
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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like he wants a free pass to having had an affair. OP, you have to ask yourself if you are willing to give him that free pass, or any forgiveness, at any point in the process or if you are always going to distrust or resent him. If you are always going to distrust or resent him, then skip the drama and get a divorce. If you have some idea of what he could do to earn your trust back, instead of harping about him about how he hurt you, then give him a path to forgiveness, something not quite a free pass. If he refuses to do anything to earn your trust back, then, again, you probably have nowhere to go but divorce. BTW, do you have kids? If not, then I do think you should lean towards leaving. Why would you want someone who doesn't want to make an effort to have you. [/quote]
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