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[quote=Anonymous]My 2 cents... Very high stress time for both of you and while I feel that there are likely some pretty significant underlying issues here with your fiancé, my vote would be to get married and wait a while for things to settle down/improve before having kids.  Look, people get divorced.  I got married when I was very young right out of college and divorced a few years later but didn't have any kids.  Second time around I remarried in my early 30s and DW and I just celebrated our second anniversary and are planning on starting a family soon.  You have a pre-nup in place and that's probably a good thing.  We did not go that route but given what you've shared it's an easier exit.  I had one the first time around.  All of this being said you guys got together for a reason and despite his faults and drinking, etc, the dude probably really loves you.

If you are really unsure about the wedding sit down and make a pro/con list if you haven't already.  Worst case scenario he turns into a horrible drunk and becomes abusive you get the marriage annulled.  [/quote]

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