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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I like the advice of waiting a long time before we have kids.  We have our pre-nups, pre-canaan and weekly therapy sessions so we have a lot of support structures in place if/when things go bad. I'm really worried about a general lack of respect and civility.[/quote]
What do you mean lack of civility? Not kissing you hello or screaming at you etc.?[/quote]

Yes both of these sometimes. Not to make excuses but we both have high stress jobs.[/quote]

My husband is starting his own law firm with a law school friend of his. Highly stressful. I work at a famous company and have a long commute. We have two young kids, one of whom has special needs and has twice-a-week therapy. I don't think DH has EVER screamed at me. I've known him for 12 years. Sometimes he says hello but doesn't kiss me hello right away (he may have toddlers climbing on him and a dog barking to be taken out). I would NEVER stand for being screamed at. [/quote]

Oh, hell, no!  Screaming?!  I second the PP.  2 kids under 5, high stress jobs, lots of student debt, crazy commute, no nearby family support, snow days/sick days/insane days...NEVER, EVER screaming.  RUN.  Seriously, run.[/quote]

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