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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I like the advice of waiting a long time before we have kids.  We have our pre-nups, pre-canaan and weekly therapy sessions so we have a lot of support structures in place if/when things go bad. I'm really worried about a general lack of respect and civility.[/quote]
What do you mean lack of civility? Not kissing you hello or screaming at you etc.?[/quote]

Yes both of these sometimes. Not to make excuses but we both have high stress jobs.[/quote]
These things don't get better with time, especially considering you've already done counseling. [/quote]

Lots of people have high stress jobs - doesn't mean they scream at their fiancé or refuse to kiss hello. What kind of high stress job if you're willing to say? Is this going to turn into one of those things where he'll scream at you and the kids for life and be rude to everyone else and if you say something you'll get -- you don't get what my life is like bc of me we live in a 6 million home so I've provided you with enough -- you can't demand that I be nice or kiss you on top if that?!

Can I ask why this hit you now as opposed to say 3 months ago? Did you witness some behavior that makes you worry even more?[/quote]

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