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Reply to "Do I have an obligation to tell my sister what her DH said?"
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[quote=Anonymous]These are the things I'd take into consideration: 1. She is your sister, so your loyalty belongs to her first simply because she's your sister. (Tell) 2. Most people would assume#1, so your BIL probably also (or should) assume the same and expects you to tell. (Tell) 3. He also didn't explicitly ask you to keep his comments from your sister. (Tell) The above considerations should be overridden if he's actually being abused. It's hard to tell from your post. You might want to familiarize yourself with what constitutes verbal abuse and with abuse of men by their female partners. If you think he's really being victimized, your first moral obligation is to protect him. (Don't tell.) If he just has the misfortune to be married to a bitchy woman who embarrasses him in public, then only consider #1-3. (Tell).[/quote]
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