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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. Surreal is a good word. Just at a complete loss of what to do almost, and it's not like those things I know she wants are really going to fix anything. I'd be thrilled if they did, but I think if we get there she will look up and be in the same place.

She might not even have admitted this to herself. [/quote]

Why not try doing those things she wants? I know you don't think they will help, and maybe they won't, but if you want your fix your marriage as much as you say you do, isn't it worth a try? It kind of feels like you're telling yourself this as an excuse so you don't have to actually do anything differently.[/quote]

OP here. I will and more. It just hit me with a ton of bricks that even if I do everything she needs/wants to be in a position to get past things, there may not be any love waiting at the end. [/quote]

Yes, but once you are divorced, you had better of learned to be a better partner, unless you want your next relationship to end up the same way.  No time to start like the present.  And really, she deserves for you to be a decent 50/50 partner, even if it ends up not reviving your dead marriage in the end.[/quote]

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