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[quote=Anonymous]This is only semi-related, and I worry I may get crucified for this, but I don't see the big deal/worry about kids being in daycare a long time.

My wife and I both work and have commutes.  Our two kids go to full time daycare, and while they aren't the first ones there, we're often part of the parental rush in the last 15 minutes of the day.  I will fully admit, on telework days, I often take an hour at the end of the day to walk the dogs/watch a show and decompress before I go pick them up.  On days where I've taken personal vacation, I send them off to daycare to have a day to myself.

Maybe my opinion is off on this, but I think they're better for it.  They know who daddy is, we have a great time with each other, we play and watch cartoons and draw and do plenty on the weekend.  Part of the reason I don't feel too bad is that we made some small monetary sacrifices to put them in a nice academic based daycare center.  As a result, my daughter, four, and the older child, knows basic sign language (I know none) and may know more Spanish than I can remember from high school.  They have tons of friends their age that they play, interact, and socialize with.  They do science experiments, learn basic math, etc.  They bring home tons of artwork.  They have a playground.  Frankly, they're probably doing better than they would if they were home with me or my wife all day.

I don't mean to make it sound like I want the daycare to handle my kids for me, it's not like that, but it's a great place for them, they still love us and play with us at night and on the weekends, and I don't think my parent-child relationship is suffering for it.  I guess I'm not sure why parents are looked down upon for having careers and commutes and relying on these places to have some hand in raising their young ones.[/quote]

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