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[quote=Anonymous]So for any BTDT or knowledgeable folks, how would you really force home the issue of housing for the sibling after they pass (assuming sibling relies on mom and dad for housing currently, somehow)? I am a PP. My parents have a trust set up for my brother, but that only really covers how their estate is handled and who's doling out the money. I know that, left to his own devices, my brother will not have stable housing (he currently lives in an apartment financed by disability + parents' dole). I would love for them to leave him the house, but it's in a 55+ community so pretty sure he wouldn't be able to live there unless they hang on for another 20 years (doubtful)! Who would you go to in this case? I don't think there are any good options among the relatives as they will be seen as "taking my side" by my parents. My parents do have a seemingly reputable financial planner. Would I just call him out of the blue or something?[/quote]
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