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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

I agree with the poster in bold above.  You people who talk about a mom not being judgemental about a fictional high school girl who has multiple partners are devoid of reality.

Yes it does matter whether a parent approves of such behavior to her daughter.  The reality of it is, the value system is biased towards girls bearing the burden of the shame.  It always has been, that is just the reality.

High school girls are not mature enough to have sex or to have the confidence to stand by their choices.  That is also reality.

I've spoken about this topic to my daughter, told her not to be judgemental but also I don't want her hanging around someone like this either.  Promiscuous sex is n not okay in any circumstance.   Do I think my daughter will never do this?  No, but I do tell her that I will love her forever, I don't have to like or approve of every one of her choices.  I am her parent not her BFF.

As a mom I would want to know where my daughter heard the term slut shaming.

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The value system being biased towards girls bearing the brunt of shame is reality that needs to change.

All high school girls being too immature to have sex or to have the confidence to stand by their choices is not reality.

And your daughter could have heard the term "slut shaming" any number of places. It's not esoteric academic jargon. It's not esoteric pornographic jargon, either.[/quote]

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