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[quote=Anonymous]Im very sorry OP. If you don't want to hire a PI, I would try to get her phone while she's busy elsewhere and install Findmyiphone type apps or even a full spy on the phone to view texts, calls, location,etc. As someone who suffered betrayal by a serial cheater and decided to divorce, I think it does matter to know and have evidence vs. only suspecting, even if it does not affect anything in the courts. I spent months suspecting something was going on, but my ex was very good at making me discredit myself, gas lighting and accusing me of being paranoid, crazy, etc. I felt very isolated and vulnerable, plus didn't have time to pursue any suspicion because I was either at work or taking care of two young kids. Finally the evidence fell in front of me and it was just the tip of the iceberg. As for finding the ownership of the phone, intelius and hexum worked for me, although sometimes they give no result or show past phone ownership instead. You are probably under a lot of pain and confusion, and I wish you the best. [/quote]
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