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I am a very capable MIL here on this end, but I just told my daughter with a 4 year old girl and a 2 year old boy that we would not want to watch him all day over President's weekend because at this stage he is just into everything, needs constant one-to-one for his own safety and at this time of the year it is not even nice to get him out to a park a lot of the time or even the yard.  In a year at 3, it would be a different story as they just mature to a certain point.  And this is a boy who is almost potty trained and can speak well above his age level to let you know his wants.  A 2 year old may not be able to express what is bothering them, has little fear and is basically an accident waiting to happen for grandparents who are not used to having such a child or any child around.  We are in good shape, but I am willing to set limits.  Now we will watch both kids for them to go out at night or for a break in the day while visiting here.

OP - I would add that you should not let the 2 year old go  because you have no idea of the cabin setting in terms of basic safety things even the stove.  I might say that it would be good to be there a couple of days to be sure your 8 year old is getting the coverage he needs like to be sure on any water sport that he is always wearing his life jacket, that he is not just being allowed to explore on his own too far.  And just generally seeing if DH is taking this as "his holiday" from parenting in general.  If so, both kids should go back with you....

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